Showing posts with label proposal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label proposal. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

How To Do The Best Marriage Proposals

by: John Caldwell

Perhaps one of the most momentous occasions in a woman's life is when the man she loves proposes to her. Though not everyone would admit it, most every woman has spent some time daydreaming about just how that moment would be like. All aspects of the occasion would be gone through over and over again in her mind. Yet not that much attention is given to what goes on in the man's mind before and during the proposal. Little is known about what the guy goes through when he makes that decision to ask the woman he loves to share the rest of their lives together. If we give in to stereotype, the typical male is not expressive and is not comfortable showing and saying exactly how he feels. On the other hand, women are supposed to be expecting the most expressive and affectionate proposal.

If you are a man who finds himself in a quandary as to how to make the ultimate marriage proposal to the woman of your life, then fret no more. At The Best Marriage Proposals, you will find all the help that you need to make that night - or day, for that matter - the perfect time that you are both looking for.

At The Best Marriage Proposals, their main goal is to help people with proposals and engagement ideas. In their website, you can find some examples of the best (and tested) marriage proposals. More than that, if you have your own tried and tested ideas, you can also find joy in helping other people by sharing them. With more than 20,000 members to date, you will surely find whatever you are looking for at The Best Marriage Proposals website. More so, you will be able to reach a wide range of people if you choose to share your own experiences.

Not all the information contained within their website is focused on the actual proposal itself. You can also find articles about related topics. For women who are becoming frustrated because their men won't propose, there are resources for you. For those men who, unfortunately, got rejected, there are also materials that will help you get through this difficult moment.

You can also find resources on how to find the perfect engagement ring to give to your fiancée-to-be. The diamond is the traditional gem presented on this happy event. At The Best Marriage Proposals, you can find a lot of information that will help you pick out the right gem for her. Though the site's banner seems to focus on the proposal and engagement, by no means is the information contained in the site limited in this way. In fact, you can find some ideas on how to go about with your wedding vows.

There is no need to fumble your way about your proposal and engagement. There is help right at your fingertips. Visit Best Marriage and come up with the perfect proposal for the love of your life.

About The Author

John Caldwell has built the most comprehensive online resource on for marriage proposals out there! To get more information on the “dos” and “don’ts” when thinking of the perfect proposal, please visit: http://www.best-marriage-proposals.com

10 Tips for Proposing Marriage

by: Amy Cunningham

Getting engaged is an exciting moment in your life. If you're ready to take the plunge, follow this guide for an engagement that you'll remember for the rest of your life.

Know Her Answer.

This may sound like an odd tip, but you'd be surprise at how many couples haven't discussed the topic of marriage prior to getting engaged. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but if you have even a doubt in your mind, then sit down and talk with your girlfriend before rushing out to buy the ring. If you've had serious discussions about your relationship and where it's headed, then you probably already know that her answer will be 'yes'.

Ring Shopping.

Before you start shopping, find out what she likes. If she doesn't care about being surprised, then you could even take her out to pick out the ring with you. Otherwise, ask her friends and family and pay attention to her likes and dislikes.

The next thing you need to do is study the 4c's. If you're like most men, you know little about diamonds and what constitutes a good one. For more information on the 4C's (carat, cut, color, clarity) for get tips on buying a diamond.

Get the Ring Insured.

After you've selected the ring, the next step is to insure it. This may seem unnecessary, but if the stone ever falls out of it's setting, you'll be glad you did it. For a nominal fee you can generally add jewelry to your home owner's or renter's policy.

Get Her Father's Blessing.

This isn't done much anymore, except possibly in the south, but it's still a very thoughtful and respectful thing to do. Plus, it will it strengthen your bond with your future father-in-law. It's as simple as inviting him out to dinner and let him know that you'd like his blessing in asking for his daughter's hand in marriage.

Get Creative.

Make your proposal one to remember! Think creatively and plan every detail. Pick a location that has special meaning, set the mood, and make sure to make it special as you'll both remember this day for the rest of your life. If you're stumped for ideas, check out our marriage proposal ideas with hundreds of ideas to get the creative juices flowing.

Down on One Knee.

There is nothing more romantic in this world that seeing the man you love down on one knee asking you to marry him.

Record the moment.

Get a friend or perhaps even an employee (if you're proposing at a restaurant or other place of business) help you set up a video camera or take pictures of the moment. If you plan ahead, you'll have these mementos to treasure forever.

Get help.

If you're planning a more extravagant proposal, get the help of a close friend of family member! They can help with details, getting your girlfriend out (if you need her away to surprise her), or even throwing her off the trail if she starts to suspect something. Be careful though because you don't want them to spoil the surprise.

Surprise Her.

Whether she admits to it or not, every woman wants a romantic surprise proposal. Even is she knows that you're planning on proposing soon, you can still make the actual time and date a surprise.

Celebrate your Engagement!

After it's official, spend a few moments together just taking in the excitement. She'll likely want to call her friends and family to let them know the news, so make sure you have your cell phone nearby. Enjoy a romantic dinner together, share a bottle of wine, and just enjoy the moment. If you want to celebrate with your close friends and family, now is the time to plan that engagement party!

About The Author

Amy Cunningham is the editor of RomanceStuck Romantic Ideas, a romantic resource for finding love and staying in love.

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Ideas For Marriage Proposal

by: Indira Marchant

1. Rent a horse and carriage and take her for a romantic ride. Propose the old fashioned way on bended knee before getting into the carriage and riding away together. One of our clients did this in Richmond Park in London.

2. Cook and set an elaborate candlelight table (or get a professional caterer to deliver) for a quiet romantic dinner for two at home. Serve her a glass of champagne with the diamond ring in the bottom or ribboned to the stem.

3. Arrange a romantic weekend away. After a perfect day of relaxing and pampering for her - surprise her with the ring and proposal.

4. Create a treasure hunt for her on her birthday or other special occasion so that she is not necessarily expecting a proposal. Create clues that lead her to uncover one-by-one treasured memories of photos or past presents from your time together so far. The last clue should lead her to the ring box and a simple "Will you marry me" note.

5. Take her for a romantic picnic or boat ride outdoors and have a plane sky-write your proposal. Be ready to present the ring when she sees your proposal.

6. Hire a magician to entertain just the two of you. Have the magician make the box with the engagement ring mysteriously appear as the surprise ending of the last trick.

7. Take her back to the first restaurant where you dined and surprise her with the ring. You can arrange for the waiter to present it to her with the dessert.

8. Decorate a Christmas tree with lights and only one ornament -- a ribbon or bow tied around the ring box. Ask her over for a Christmas celebration for just the two of you.

9. For a very traditional approach, ask her father for her hand in marriage. When the approval is given, make plans for the next family gathering and make your proposal to her in private with diamond in hand. When she says yes, stand up and announce your engagement to everyone.

10. Prime a friend with harmless little secrets about the two of you, and have him pose as a psychic when you dial. Be sure to ask the right personal questions to make it look authentic. Have the psychic predict a diamond in her very near future. Then make your proposal on the spot.

11. If she likes sports, then take her to a local or professional sporting event and arrange to have your message displayed on the scoreboard after halftime..."Naomi...Will you marry me?" Have the diamond ready to present when she sees it.

12. Arrange to have dinner together at your favorite Chinese restaurant. Have the waiter give her a special fortune cookie with "Will you marry me?" in it. Or you could have it say, "You will receive a diamond in the very near future." And present the diamond in a box.

13. During dinner at your favorite restaurant, arrange with the waiter to have the diamond in a box as one of the choices on the dessert tray. Tell her she is the sweetest thing you know and you can't resist her any longer.

14. Rent a limousine for the evening and be inside when they pick her up at home or work. Take her to an elegant restaurant for a romantic candlelight dinner for two, then present her the diamond on the way home in the limousine.

15. For the chocoholic: Chocolate-dip the diamond box, and put it in the centre of a big box of chocolates when you are alone for the evening. She will always wonder what's in the largest piece of chocolate that she has seen. Pick it up for her and open it with a flair.

16. Invite her for some games at home. Use Scrabble letters and spell out "Will you marry me?" Have the diamond close by.

17. Plan a romantic train journey (the Orient Express does day trips) and propose en route as you pass some beautiful scenery.

18. Take her for a surprise picnic at the beach or in the woods. At the picnic spot, spell out "Marry Me" with stones, flowers or seashells. Put the diamond in her hand when she says yes.

19. Take her to the highest local peak, get down on one knee and make the highest commitment possible with the highest quality diamond you can afford.

20. Write her a song or poem especially for the occasion and sing/say it aloud or arrange for a professional singer/band.

About The Author

Indira Marchant PhD provides information and services for those seeking to buy diamond engagement rings and other jewelry for that special moment; More details can be found at http://www.bestdiamonds.co.uk.
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