Welcome the Dating Coach - the New Super Hero of 21st Century Online Dating

Author: The Online Dating Coach

The Online Dating Industry is exploding with millions of new members joining every single day. It is estimated that within the next five years, almost 50% of all single adults will use Online Dating Services to meet other singles!

As more and more people use online dating services and dating agencies to help them find their Soulmates, a new specialty service has emerged in the form of an Online Dating Coach. While the online dating sites compile your personal information so they can do the matchmaking, a Dating Coach works directly with the clients to help them establish and develop the relationships which start within the agency. A Dating Coach has the responsibility of helping clients effectively market themselves on the dating site. Essentially, an Online Dating Coach provides personal coaching services to clients so they can put their best foot forward in making contact with the other dating site members.



An Online Dating Coach is a dating specialist who, after interviewing and working with a client and using special coaching assessment tools, will help the client put his or her thoughts, feelings, and values on paper (so to speak) and in doing so create the client's Online Dating Profile which will be seen by the other members.

In addition to this, an Online Dating Coach will help his clients see how their thoughts and feelings are affecting their dating matches, and will offer guidance and feedback to enhance the client's likelihood of success. In many cases, a Dating Coach's clients have been away from the single marketplace for a good number of years. Therefore a bit of rehabilitation is helpful for some clients as a way to familiarize them with 21st century dating practices. A lot has changed in the world of dating in the past ten or twenty years - indeed, even in the past five years have dating rituals evolved!

A Dating Coach usually works by phone, and typically, weekly or twice-a-week telephone coaching sessions are scheduled at the convenience of the client, sometimes after work and occasionally on the weekends. At the beginning of the coaching process, a Dating Coach will do an initial assessment to get the larger picture of what's occurred in the client's personal life. During that assessment, the client's personal values are mined through a series of open-ended questions. This interview sets the stage for the effective coaching sessions that follow.

Ongoing coaching sessions with a Dating Coach may be as simple as meeting by phone for an hour to discuss the men or women you've dated over the past week, or they may become as intricate as having your Dating Coach listen carefully while you practice flirting with strangers, or role playing to get ready for "the big night out."

Perhaps the most important aspect of selecting a Dating Coach is investigating their professional academic credentials. You'll want to make sure that your Dating Coach has been professionally trained of course. A Dating Coach who has a background in Psychology or Social Work (if not both) can be very helpful in drawing out the qualities of a client's personality that he or she may not even be aware of themselves. The Dating Coach can then help the client express themselves so their dates have the benefit of their true feelings and personality. As a simplistic but illustrative example, shyness in a person is often mistaken for conceit. The person who seems unfriendly is often just bashful, but this quality may lead to a misunderstanding - especially on a first date. A properly trained Dating Coach can resolve this type of issue by helping the client compensate for his or her shyness and even make it work in their favor.

As with any form of counseling, when you seek the assistance of a Dating Coach, be objective but also look within so you choose someone who sincerely wants to help you. The more your Dating Coach is willing to work with you as his client, the more committed he is to providing the service he's promised. At the very least, the service of a Dating Coach will help you learn more about yourself and make you more comfortable with the personality you express to the world. Since a large part of dating is your wish to feel good about yourself through the companionship of another, just feeling better about yourself overall will make your life richer for having had the experience of being coached. And feeling better about yourself can easily lead you to the relationship you've been dreaming about - and the reason you joined that dating service in the first place!

About the Author:

Jay Reiss is an Online Dating Coach who has worked with more than two thousand clients worldwide! He'll help you design your Online Dating Profile and show you how to succeed with Online Dating! He offers a free telephone coaching session (a $100.00 value - free!) and has Free Online Dating Advice on his website http://www.online-dating-coach.com

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Online Dating for Married People

Author: Richard Gazzo

The internet is a large place with all type of services and niches for anything you can imagine. Online dating for instance is a multi million dollar industry. In the dating industry there are tons of different niches ranging from BBW (big beautiful women), ethnic dating such as (Muslim, Asian) and there is even a niche called "married dating". Yes you read right, there are many dating sites that cater to married men and women who are looking for extramarital affairs.






The "married but looking" population is quite large, and it only makes sense. With the divorce rate at over 50% people find the love and attention that they aren't getting at home through married personal ads and other means. We can argue if it is right or wrong but it's human nature to want companionship, this can range from a one night stand to leaving your wife for another lady.





And along comes the internet and changes how we interact and meet one another and this includes married men seeking married women and vice verse. Online married dating sites that cater to to married people are popular for a few reason. The first reason that it is popular is because of the autonomy of the internet. People feel anonymous online so they tend to explore subjects that they wouldn't otherwise be able to. The web is a huge place and if you're interested in cheating on your wife then there is probably a married woman who is interested in the same thing.





As the popularity of the web exploded in early the late 1990s so did dating sites and then married dating sites like Ashley Madison and Married Cafe started to spring up that catered exclusively to married people . These sites are designed to be discreet and when you pay a monthly membership usually the name on the credit card statement is very discreet, to keep husbands and wives in the dark as to what is really going on.





Married dating sites operate like any other online dating service, you have all the options that you can think of. You can search based on gender, distance, body size, age and of course marital status. It's like shopping for an automobile, you can choose exactly what you want and click submit to see the results in seconds.





These web sites are big money makers for the owners looking at the millions of members that some sites boast. Like it or not extra marital affairs have always happened, maybe it's easier now to meet married women or men but it has always been there.

About the Author:

Richard Gazzo is an online writer he offering tips and info on married personals, married dating and more http://www.marriedaffair.net

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Online Dating Tips (Video)

Online Dating Tricks

by: Vivian Johnson

Oh yes...when it comes to online dating, it is possible to get tricked from so many different directions.

First, there are literally tens of thousands of single dating sites fighting for your membership. And as you may have discovered, many will do anything to get it!

One online dating site trick that never seems to go away is the “fictitious member” trick.

What happens is this; you sign up for their free trial which will allow you to view members, members can view you, and you can receive email. Cool...

You set up a basic profile; it doesn’t make sense to invest too much time since you’re not sure if you are going to stay!

Within minutes, you receive a very heart felt, sincere email from a top local executive, or another equally impressive field. Basically, they are looking for someone just like you...in your area! Well now...! You sharpen your wits; construct a very professional, cute, informative response. As soon as you send your response, you are glued to your monitor... amazed at your luck!


You’re waiting for a response from “Mr. My Future”...there it is!

You rush to your in box...and it’s from the site’s admin. dept. They remind you that you can only receive email...you can’t respond to email. What do you do...? Is “Mr. My Future” all part of the membership “trick”?

You’re on another site...clickin’...cruisin’...socializin’...until you run into someone that not only caught your eye, but you’re both on the same reality page! He gets your little jokes...makes the same little off color remarks...you even share the same music files... you have the same outlook on relationships...and even if the relationship doesn’t take a romantic turn, you would love to have this person as a friend. This is too good to be true...you spend every free minute instant messaging...emailing...phoning...texting...he is a major part of your day.

A couple of days go by...

You haven’t heard from him...emails aren’t being answered. You check the site you met him on and he hasn’t logged in for over two days. That’s not normal...you leave several messages on his cell phone...followed with text messages. But...no response. Of course you are concerned about him, but to be totally honest? You know it’s selfish, but you don’t want to have this person walk out of your life. He’s brought a lot of simple pleasures to your world. The two of you have even planned a weekend rendezvous...just to see if the physical/sexual attraction is there...while slowly sinking into self pity, there is an email. “It’s a really long story, but could you wire me $325. before 10:00? You’re the only person I trust...I will explain it all later...” Is this a trick...?

Both of these scenarios are true experiences. I’ve said all of that to say this: keep your guard up, until you are 100% sure you can safely take it down!

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Online Dating-The Problem With Online Dating

by: Vivian Johnson

One of the main problems with online dating is the extensive selection that is available. With so many singles we find ourselves getting caught up and involved with so many of them.

We would save a lot of time and emotions by being more selective. That way we are available for the Singles that fit our “must have” list.

Online dating is not like your local bar and grille where you may have a selection of 7-10 eligible singles on a good night!

Online your choices are endless! If you don’t find who you want on one site? You just move onto the next singles site.

Start with your list of “must haves” and begin shopping! Take your time...the Singles aren’t going anywhere!

Another problem with online dating, you can never be sure the photo of the person is really the person you are corresponding with! But I think that is a small risk for the quantity of singles you will have access to.

But look at it from the other direction. The Singles you meet in public could be giving you the wrong name, the wrong age; their current relationship status could be a lie. So, if someone is going to lie, they are a liar. Whether online or off...a liar is a liar!

That is the reason I ask so many questions. If that offends some of the Singles? Too Bad! I have a right to know what I am dealing with from the very beginning. If the Single you are giving the “Third degree” to has been online dating for any length of time, they will understand your skepticism. If not...oh well...Next!!?

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Online Dating-Why We Can't Find Our Soul Mate Online

by: Vivian Johnson

Some of us singles feel like our life is incomplete without our “soul mate”. So we are on a mission to find this illusive person!

Why we can’t find our soul mate online is that we do not know what characteristics our soul mate will have. We may be ignoring our soul mate everyday!

Our “soul mate” may have a gentle nature and aren’t as persistent as the other Singles that force their way into our worlds.

You will find the persons that are the most persistent and aggressive online are not your soul mate.

So if we are waiting for our soul mate to “steam roll” their way into our lives, we are wasting our time. This will never happen!

Why we can’t find our soul mate online is that when we first go online we are pursued by the stronger personality types. The ones that will email us over and over again without even waiting for a response.

We may not know it at the time but the people that monopolize most of our time online is not our soul mate. So we aren’t available when our soul mate comes along.

For this reason, I tell all singles do not spend your “down time” communicating with Singles you really aren’t interested in.

The “nicer” singles will not pursue you if they perceive you really aren’t interested in them. They will move on,

The reason why we can’t find our soul mate online is that we are usually overlooking them!

Stay away from the time wasters, that will insure you are available when your “soul mate” finds you!

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Finding True Love through a Free Online Dating Service

By: Alan Lim

FREE Online dating service is a very convenient and easy way to meet people who can become potential partners. Know more about finding true love in the Internet through this article.

Free online dating service sites are great channels where singles can look for potential lifetime partners. The Internet can be a very convenient place to find romance. In fact, those who are currently using a free online dating service can attest to this. However, despite their popularity, many people are still apprehensive about trying them out.

Modern technology has improved our lives in many ways. One of the aspects it has done so is in enhancing the ways for us to find old-fashioned romance. However, there is a growing misconception that a free online dating service seems to focus mainly on superficial relationships and immediate gratification.

It is true that for a good old romance to progress, both parties should further nurture the relationship to a more personal level. This takes some time to develop. However, with the fast-paced wonders of technology, it is virtually impossible for a free online Internet dating service not to provide an easy and quick means to establish a relationship.

Do not get the wrong idea, though. There are people who successfully find their mate through ｆfree online dating service sites. There are thousands of successful marriages and relationships which have developed for singles who found each other through free online dating service sites. To be able to succeed just like them, you have to exert some effort in getting to know the person you are interested in. You should have a means to communicate in a more personal level in order to nourish the relationship. It is only by establishing a strong foundation that you can increase your chances for a healthy, long lasting relationship.

Remember too that a free online dating service is just like looking for someone in a nightclub or a bar. There are those who are looking for long-term companionship just as there are those looking for immediate gratification. If you want to find true love, you might have to exert a little more effort in looking for one.

It may not be easy at first, as there are thousands and thousands of individuals to choose from. You need to look through lots of profile and search for those who match your preferences. From there, you will need to narrow down your choices to include only those who have the same objectives as you have. Once you have narrowed down your choices, you have to send an email or two in order to introduce yourself, and wait whether the other party is interested or not. In the same way, you need to build a winning profile in order to attract attention of people who might potentially be a good mate.

If you are serious about finding a life-time partner and an old-fashioned romance, a free online dating service can be a very good option. There is no means to meet a wide number of people as conveniently as these dating services. It may also be wise to opt for other channels at the same time. The more options you allow yourself to have, the more chances you have of finding a good partner who will last a lifetime.

Yes, you can find your true love online! What are you waiting for? Sign up for free now by visiting FREE Online Dating Service or Online Dating Service.

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Online Dating Site – Where You Can Find That Dream Date

By: Robert W. Flournoy

Whether you are a man looking for a woman or a woman looking for a man, or whatever, you are sure to find your perfect match with Internet dating. The Internet is full of many websites where you will come across thousands of profiles and all you will need to do is conduct a search to find someone you like. In these websites you will find people from all corners of the world and there are members from different communities as well.

But in their search there are many people who seem to get confused as to where they should turn to and this is because of the huge number of websites. So visit some of the websites you come up with, and then once you are sure of one dating website you should begin to search for a date there. Having done this you should now create your own profile. According to the regulations at eHarmony.com, AmericanSingles.com and PerfectMatch.com, you will need to be a registered member to view the profiles – but in many others you can do this free. However once you have become interested in someone and want to establish contact, you need to sign up and become a paid member.

Or you may want to try out a community website for online dating particularly when you need a partner who belongs to your own community. People of whatever community you are looking for - Blacks, Whites, Asians, etc., you will find a community dating website for it. For those seeking lesbians or gays, there are website for online dating options too.

Online dating promises distance and there are no commitments as well and this is what many prefer in the start. So you will find two kinds of people at such websites – those that are looking for a casual friendship and those who are keen on a long term relationship. So it is best to become a member and start making contact and see where it goes. So get going – maintain your distance and privacy at the online dating site while you are judging the person, and only when you feel close enough can you decide to disclose more. The most important thing here is obviously your privacy – you disclose only when you want to. And of course, you can meet the singles that you want to, and they are also looking.

There are some websites where you can sign up for a trial offer – this is a good idea when you are not sure whether you will be able to find a date there or not. Opt for the trial offer to try these websites and if they work, then you may become a member. But do keep your eyes open and read any feedback about the website you come across.

Online Dating Connect is where you will find the best websites for dating. Get informed on how to select a date who matched your background and taste.
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Online Dating Tips: 3 Ways to Lower Your Risk Factor

While many businesses around the globe are experiencing some tough economic times, there seems to be at least one industry that is flourishing. In the United States last year over 500 million dollars was spent in on line dating. That number is expected to grow like wildfire in a few more years as is the number of internet dating sites which are becoming more and more niche specific.

That in most cases is the future of internet dating. Smaller services will be just as prosperous as some of the current online mega companies without feeling the need or pressure of having to compete against these places. What of course will be beneficial to many of these businesses large or small is the advancement in technology. Internet dating is bound to get more interactive. In all likelihood it will grow from the instant chats and webcams to pert near feeling like your cyber date is sitting in the same room with you.

But with explosive growth, it becomes more and more crucial to protect yourself in the cyber dating world. Not just fly by night companies that spring up, guarantee results and then disappear with your money but also those individuals who are not interested in anything except what they can get regardless of how it impacts anyone else.

Therefore exercise proper precaution when it comes to:

1. Choosing Your Online Dating Service

Should go without saying right? Except that many of us get caught up in the companies dazzling sales pitch without doing any real homework. The best way to check out an internet dating service is to ask someone who has used it. Hopefully that person is someone you know and trust. If you cannot find anyone in your immediate circle, than go to some of the forums and see what's cooking. People have no reservations about sharing their on line dating experience whether good, bad or indifferent. See if anyone is talking about a site you would like to join or get in and start asking questions.

2. Rules and Regulations

All on line dating sites have them (or should) but so few of us actually read them. The print may look boring and too small but having a clear understanding of what the company is offering can save you misunderstandings and headaches. You could wind up having a bad experience with an on line dating service because you believed something that was not spelled out in the fine print. Whatever dating site you are interested in joining take the extra steps to see EXACTLY what they are offering and the parameters that go with it.

3. Avoid Straying

You have done your homework and signed on to a dating site. You wind up meeting someone and the two of you really start having some great chats. Now suddenly the other person has a "wonderful" idea. Why not drop the dating service contact system and start communicating more directly using your primary email address? Not a good idea. This is one of the many ways scammers work. The whole point is to move you to a place where their activities cannot really be monitored. Then they lay it on thick when it comes to playing with your emotions as a way to manipulate you. Stay within the dating services structure and report anything suspicious.

Not only is on line dating becoming mainstream but it is also moving into territory that is more interactive and niche specific. There are a lot of opportunities to take advantage of but the more on line dating grows the more important it is to take action and ensure your dating experience becomes less risky.

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Dangers of the online dating

Much has been said about online dating advantages, as it is a great way to meet a possible life partner or to make friends. But online communication can also hold potential dangers of scammers, con-artists, or plain not nice people. You can easily protect yourself by following a few simple rules and make the most of your online experience at the same time.

Things NOT TO DO:

Getting personal has a limit - it is possible to give too much personal information, for example, your address, your work place, bank account, or credit card information. It is never a good idea to share this type of data, especially, if you are communicating with a person, whom you have not met face-to-face. If you are using free online chats, you could easily be talking to a man, who is a hacker or a thief, while you might be under the impression that you are chatting to a sweet lady, who is interested in you. Such people normally gain your trust, and when you least expect it use this information to appropriate your savings, credit, or even identity.

The type of theft mentioned above is more spread in the US and Europe, but Russia and some CIS countries have a different type of danger - scammers. The latter work in a different manner: they will also gain your trust, but instead of stealing your money through your credit cards or bank accounts, they will do everything possible to have you send the money yourself. A typical scenario is for your "lady" (many of whom turn out to be men half the time!) is to start coming up with the reasons as to why she will not be able to continue communicating with you: she won't have the money to pay agency fees, she will no longer have access to a computer, one of her relatives will get sick and she has to move to take care of him/her, etc. In order to avoid being tricked in this way, we suggest that you always use trusted reputable agencies to find brides from overseas, have enough information about your lady to make sure she is real (i.e. talk to her over phone, have some of her real-life photos, etc), and notify agencies if you feel suspicious about your sweetheart asking for money. It is also advisable to do a background check if you are seriously interested in someone from overseas - some agencies will perform this service by visiting and interviewing a lady you are corresponding with to see if she is real, and how interested she is in communicating with you.

If you are communicating online with people from your community or nearby, it is a good idea not to tell them where your house is located. Unless you have met them and know a person well, you are better off not to share this kind of information. We suggest you are certain of who a person is and his/her intentions before inviting them to your home to avoid unwanted trouble.

Things TO DO:

Make sure that your friends and family are aware of your online communication, and have as much information about the person you are talking to as possible. It is advisable to let them know when you are planning your first date/meeting with your online sweetheart. Let them know how you met online, what you know about this person, where you will be meeting, and when you plan to be home. It is also a good idea to have one of your friends or relatives give you a call during the date - this will give you a great excuse to leave sooner if you do not feel comfortable with your new acquaintance.

Always plan your first meetings in a public place to make sure there are plenty of people around. Should your new acquaintance have any malicious intent, it will be difficult for him/her to carry it out, and give you plenty of time to keep a safe distance.

You can also plan your first meeting as group gathering - aside from it being a safe option for a first time meeting, it can also help both of you avoid awkward silences should the date not go as smooth as planned.

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Top Three Reason To Use Free Online Dating Services

By: Ingrid Margaret

Are you tired of the stigma attached to free online dating services and the people who use them? Here are three good reasons why that stigma should melt away.

For a long time, a stigma has been attached to the search for relationships over the Internet. People say they aren’t real relationships because the people don’t meet in person, at least not right away. They point to deception, dangers, and other problems as good reasons not to use these free online dating services. However, there are plenty of excellent reasons why finding someone online is going to be a better choice.

Reason #1: Safer Environment

One woman who was meeting people through free online dating services was told by her mother that doing so was too risky. She could, after all, encounter a dangerous predator. In response, the woman simply asked, "So you’d rather me meet guys at a dark bar where everyone is intoxicated and not thinking clearly? Or maybe you’d prefer that I date a co-worker so I can lose my job the moment things go wrong?" Her mother was, of course, speechless.


For most people, these are the two options they used to find potential mates. Maybe they go the gym or other places they enjoy but in those cases, finding a romantic partner is rarely the primary intention. Nothing is safe about picking up people at a bar whether you are a man or a woman. Plus, office romances rarely succeed and almost always end up with someone cleaning out their desks. Those problems aren’t going to happen with free online dating services.

Reason #2: Sex Can Wait

We’ve all been there. You meet someone new and go on a date then the issue of sex comes up. Too often couples end up falling back on the sexual aspect of their relationships instead of working on building the more important components, such as friendship and respect. If you meet someone through these free online dating services, sex is rarely going to be an immediate option. Even if you live in the same city, you’ll want to spend time getting to know each other well before ever meeting in person.

The good thing about putting sex on the back burner is that you do have a better chance of really getting to know one another. And because the person picked you because of your profile and not just your good looks, there’s a better chance that you can make a connection that isn’t based solely on lust.

Reason #3: More Prepared for Liars

With all of the warnings about deception on free online dating services, men and women are definitely going to have their guard up when meeting people through these avenues. However, you might not be able to say the same thing about people who meet through other means. Think back to the last encounter with the opposite sex you’ve had at a bar. Were both of you complete honest in all of the things you said about yourselves? While deception seems to be a part of searching for relationships, at least online people are prepared for it.
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Free Online Dating Tips and Services

Many singles are liberal for free online sex dating service. But being single is not big problem between us. Problem starts when dating seeker have confident lacuna which is responsible behind your singleton status. May be shyness is big deficiency in any adult singles life. Because of their shyness, they can be subjected to steady degradation throughout their growing up years. In there school days, they were scared of talking to any new guy, afraid of giving presentation before class, afraid of participating in school debates. Slowly they realize that there is something wrong with them. In their class, they are not just like normal guy in compare to their classmates. No doubt during their school and university days, they had a extremely limited number of friends.

They can not express themselves how depressed they feel each time. They go together with their friends to bar for a drink. And others who have girlfriends would bring them, and those who haven’t would try their chance in flattering any hot girl for couple dating. Usually shy people would restrict themselves to the corner most place and will be seen with the company of my drink. Other friends would try all the tricks to flatter the girls for sex dating which they met at the bar. They adopt all techniques like to offer free drink to hot girls and to dedicating popular romantic songs for them. It’s a delight to watch the things especially when any girl refuses their expansion. But at the same time, it creates an invalid, a miserable feeling inside them who are very shy to do this. Their friends even tried to send them on blind meetings, but he would tremble from the very idea of going out with a girl alone for sex dating. They are thankful their shyness that they never going to fall in love with anyone. If you are like this type of guy then there is free internet dating service to provide you to best dating tips.

We can see many guys around us who are shy for dating online. May be you can one of them. Then you are suggested to take the free online sex dating service at least once for trail basis. Initially it is not going to cost you anything because of free dating services. Initially you laugh at his suggestion saying that it’s not for you. But you should take it the free online dating service as a serious consideration. Finally you decide to try your luck on the free online mature dating service. You think what’s the heck, if you are not going to gain something, you will never lose anything either. Though your friend promise for the free online dating service, you decide to do a bit of examine to see if all the build up is worth it or not. You check into some prominent free online dating service sites. The graphics, attractive color combo, interesting profiles, everything in those sites offering free online dating services are so attractive that it’s hard to pay no attention to them. Then you convince that all his previous assumptions were ridiculous.

You should not waste any more time and you create your profile on a prominent free online dating site. You will even surprise of yourself as how easily you can open up before the free online discreet dating service community when you start chatting with them. It’s been two months since you joined this free couple dating service bandwagon and today you can see a complete makeover of your personality. You no longer hesitate while talking to any girls and propose for free dating. Can’t tell you what a relief it is to see that you are normal like any other guy of your age and all credit goes to free adult dating personals service!
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Finding Dating Online Tips

Dating online can be an exhilarating experience, and can be extremely rewarding in the end. This is a unique environment where you can find people who are interested in the same things you are. Sometimes in every day life, this can be difficult because we often randomly meet single people who may or may not be compatible with us romantically. But you can't enter the online dating world with unabashed trust. People can pretend to be someone else more easily than in any other aspect of their lives. Tread cautiously when pursuing dates online, and adhere to dating online tips to help you navigate these sometimes dangerous but often rewarding waters.

Dating online tips can include any number of topics from how to present your profile online to maximize you success rate, to how to protect your personal information, to how to act on a date, and how to be safe when physically meeting a person you've only talked to online. Sometimes you can get too excited about discovering someone that you can talk easily to on the internet, but this doesn't mean that you can entirely trust this person, and even if they are completely trustworthy, you might not be able to hit things off so smoothly in read person.

You can find helpful information through dating online tips about what to do in the sticky situations that can happen in the online dating scene. One of the best tips when you're first embarking on the online dating world, is to be honest about yourself without revealing sensitive information. If you strive to come off as someone more interesting, more important, or more attractive than you really are, this will surely burn you in the end. The last thing you want to do is become one of those people that dating online tips tell people to look out for. Starting off by misrepresenting yourself is the worst thing you can do, and guarantees not being successful.

Also, don't give out too much information about yourself as a desperate attempt to get noticed. If you make a lot of money in real life, you don't often wear a sandwich board that announces "Hey muggers, my pockets are full of cash, come and get me!" Dating online tips tell you to be discreet about your financial situation because there are pirnahas out there ready to get their hands on your financial information to exploit it, steal your identity, and a host of other nightmare activities.

If you end up deciding to meet someone you've met online, agree to meet in a somewhat crowded public place, so the person won't know your address and can't stalk you or do other malicious things. You are still dealing with a stranger who may or may not be who they say they are. Dating online tips first and foremost put safety first. If you are really impressed with or attracted to someone, it can be very easy to be taken advantage of. Your defenses are down when you really like someone, you want them to be everything you imagine them to be. When participating in online dating, pay attention to dating online tips, and always be alert.

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Online Dating Tips for Men and Women: Dating Online Today

Online dating is one of the the safest and most convenient ways to meet single men or women. But because of the stigma that online chat rooms sometimes suffer from, singles, especially single women, can still feel apprehensive about joining an online dating site.

The following are some basic, common sense safety tips to keep in mind when dating online. Follow these tips, and you should be perfectly fine and be able to enjoy all the benefits online dating has to offer.

Take the following safety precautions, and you'll make absolutely sure that you are not doing anything that could be dangerous.

Do not, under any circumstance reveal any personally identifiable information in your online dating profile, in your personal ads, or in your private e-mails to singles.

Such information includes your real name, specifics about where you live ("I live in London" is ok, though) or any other info that could be used maliciously or simply without your consent.

Use only the communications tools provided by your dating service. They now offer private e-mail, chat, and even instant messaging. You should not invite singles to e-mail you at your regular address, at least until you get to know them better. Use your judgement here.

When you e-mail singles in private, you may want to consider using an anonymous e-mail account at a free site such as Hotmail or Yahoo when you begin getting to know new people. Take your time to establish communication and move at your own pace.

Be careful with your signatures. Many of us use multiple signature lines for our personal and business e-mail correspondence that include our phone numbers and addresses. Obviously you'll want to leave this information out when first contacting any singles you meet through the personals.

Your best option might be opening an entirely new free e-mail account, to use just for your communications with singles you meet online.

Remember, you're in control. No one should ever pressure you into revealing anything about yourself that you want to keep private. Anyone who does is not respecting your boundaries, and is probably not worth contacting further.

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10 Online Dating Safety Tips You Should Never Forget

It seems everyone is into online dating today. Years back it was taboo to say you had met that special someone over the Internet as today it's become mainstream. Popular Internet dating sites like www.TheFitnessPersonals.com are making meeting that special someone increasingly easier. With this new medium for induction taking off with it comes some common sense and not so common sense rules to go by.

Hear are my top 10:

1. Only meet your date when you are 100% ready. You got to feel comfortable first. Make sure your 'gut' agrees with you head.

2. Keep it public. First date should be in a public place like a coffee shop or restaurant.

3. Meet at the date location – meaning DO NOT meet at your dates place of residence or yours. If the date goes really well you'll then have plenty of opportunity in the future to go there but not now.

4. Keep the date to a limit. Say 1 hour. That give you both plenty of time to get an idea if a connection exists plus it keeps the pressure off if one person can't wait for the date to be over. Remember – if it goes well then the next date can always be longer.

5. Make a friend aware. Let a friend know that you are going on a date with a new person and let that friend know where you are going to be. Agree to call your friend after the date to let him/her know everything is ok.

6. Make sure to have your cell phone with you and fully charged.

7. Avoid alcohol.

8. Do not leave your drink or food unattended. You don't know this person so don't trust too much from the beginning.

9 . Remember your gut. If it tell you things are off be ready to listen to it and simply end the date and leave.

10. Make sure when the date is over that you are not being followed so you get home safely.

Relationships take time to build and trust is something that shouldn't be given away in a matter of minutes, hours, or even days. Remember – follow your gut and you will know when it's right to take your relationship to the next level.

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Helpful Divorce Advice for Women

Going through a divorce is a long complicated process no matter how smoothly things are going. Even if you and your spouse are communicating well and have agreed to a settlement, the emotional toll that it takes on a person can be enormous and is often hard to deal with. In most cases female involved in the relationship tends to have the most problems dealing with the divorce, which is why there are number of books and Internet sites that have been dedicated to offering divorce advice for women.

One of the many books that have been published on the matter of divorce that offers advice to women is entitled "Divorce 4 Women". A woman who went through the entire divorce process herself wrote this book and now she wants to offer advice to other women who are going through what she went through. What this book has been designed to offer you is a roadmap of how to get through the ordeal. Included in this book are stories of other women and what they went through and of how the pain and anger could have been avoided. One of the main things that offered by the book is how to get what you deserve from your divorce settlement. It promises to help you to keep your sanity, children and home. It includes tips for choosing the best attorneys and for getting your finances in order. While this book offers a great deal of information it is important to remember that it was written by someone who had gone through a divorce. In no way is this person a trained professional in the area of divorce and you must keep that in mind when listening to her advice.
There is a multitude of Internet sites that offer advice to women to help them get through the divorce process. Once again these are sites that have been created by people who have more than likely gone through divorce themselves, but it is possible that they do not have any training or experience in the matter at all. It is important that you take this information with a grain of salt and not follow it to the letter. Internet sites simply offer people a great way of getting things off their chest. They can share their feelings and ideas with others. However, when it comes to taking advice from others that may impact your divorce you should do so only if they are trained in the area.
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Dating Tips

According to Michael P. Johnson, professor of sociology at Penn State, there are three things that keep a person in a marriage: people want to stay, they feel they ought to stay, and/or they have to stay. This combination of personal, moral, and structural commitment serves to keep people in marriages.

Notice that commitment keeps people in marriage--not happiness. Dr. Ted Huston of the University of Texas Austin studied couples from courtship to marriage. His ten-year-plus study exploded many popular misconceptions about love. For example, he found that many recently wed couples did not experience newlywed bliss; in fact, couples whose marriages began with "Hollywood romance" intensity soon burned out. A couple expecting wedded bliss every day of their lives was actually more likely to divorce than a couple with a less exciting relationship, because they were more likely to consider divorce when those intense feelings subsided. Does that mean that less exciting, even lackluster relationships last? They do indeed, perhaps because they have less far to fall.
Research shows that unhappy periods in a marriage are not indicative of future unhappiness. In fact, one study showed that 86% of unhappily married couples who stayed with their marriage were happier five years later--three fifths of whom were "quite" or "very happy."
According to the 2004 "State of Our Unions" report by the National Marriage Project, the percentage of married people 18 or older who said that their marriage was very happy has declined over the last quarter century, from about 69% in the mid 1970s to 64% for men and 60% for women today. That's less than two-thirds of the married population who considers themselves very happy in their relationship. Clearly, you don't have to be blissfully in love or very happy for your relationship to last. What do you need?
It's not love and luck. It's commitment and companionship. Commitment means that you have powerful personal, moral, and structural reasons to stay in the relationship. Companionship means that you and your partner form a unified team against whatever challenges life hands you. Team members may fight, disagree, and encounter stalemates, but they know that their happiness and satisfaction in life depends on the success of the team--not on their individual success.
When Marriage Fails ... Who and How
Contrary to popular belief, it's not men who seek divorce. It's women, by an overwhelming majority. The reasons for this are varied. Part of it is the nature of divorce laws; another part is the fact that men tend to have more problems with marriage-destroying behaviors like alcoholism, affairs, and substance abuse, that cause their wives to seek separation.
Divorce is hard on everyone. The damage divorce causes to children is usually worse than the damage caused by living in a two-parent home with marital difficulties. This is contrary to the popular belief that children are better off if their parents divorce rather than live together. Studies show that only in a minority of high-conflict situations is this true.
After a divorce, a woman's standard of living can be expected to drop while a man's standard of living may actually improve. Yet men suffer in other ways. Divorced and separated men are two and a half times more likely to commit suicide than married men. This is partially due to the fact that men, unlike women, are less likely to have a strong support network to share their feelings. Whether due to this need for companionship or not, divorced men are more likely to remarry than divorced women, and they're more likely to remarry sooner.
Who Has the Real Power in a Relationship
Regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, whether you pay the bills or stay at home, or whether you need your spouse more than your spouse needs you, there is only one person in control of any relationship. That person has the power to turn a relationship around or run it into the ground. And that person usually never realizes how much power he/she wields until it is too late.
That person is you.
You have the choice to either react to the situation you're in (by complaining about your marriage, allowing yourself to be swamped by negative emotions, or feeling out of control), or to take responsibility and choose your actions. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "No one can hurt you without your consent."
Even if you cannot change your partner's behavior, you can choose how you respond to that behavior. You can internalize the blame, the hurt, and the criticism, or you can take responsibility for your own feelings and choose to act the way you want to feel.
Think again about that last concept. You should act the way you want to feel. If you want to feel more loving towards your spouse, act more loving. If you want to feel happier in your marriage, smile more and express gratitude for the good things in your marriage. It's one of the strangest aspects of human psychology that the more you act the way you want to feel (thankful, peaceful, loving, affectionate, etc.) the more you will begin to feel that way.
Few people realize this. When a marriage begins to crumble, their first instinct is to act out their emotions. They feel hurt, so they lash out. They feel criticized, so they become defensive. They feel vulnerable, so they close up. These are reactions, not actions. Your feelings should NOT make you act in ways that you don't want to.
You have the power to transform your marriage, even if your partner doesn't want to. That's because your behavior has an enormous influence on your partner, to the point that married people actually grow alike over time. We can't help but pick up our partner's moods, preferences, and ways of saying certain things. If you transform yourself--your attitude, the way you communicate, how often you show love and affection--your partner will be incapable of resisting. A happy, fulfilling relationship begins with you. And in the next part of this mini-course, I'll show you how to start achieving it.
For an excellent resource and further information, visit Amy Waterman's - Save My Marriage Today

Dating & Relationship Advice For Today's Singles

Online
I've been giving free online dating advice because I have two objectives - to make sure you are successful with your online dating, and to make sure you stay safe. For starters, the best online services are nerve.
People
Most people get involved with their exes again, and live happily for a few months. While it used to be that successful matches made online, the ones where marriage resulted, were the things of headlines and tabloids, that's not the case these days where more and more people are meeting online, forming fast friendships and then turning those connections romances that work.
Date
One of the most recurring mental blocks men face before they date is their eagerness to plunge into a deep, stable and unbreakable relationship. After all, this is your first date and the two of you are getting to know each other.
Person
Dating has often been called a "game" because each person is trying to figure out what the other person wants out of the relationship. There are sites for nearly every type of person and lifestyle out there and you will find at least one that suits you perfectly.
Yourself
- Calm yourself by telling yourself you're excited, not nervous. In short, I'm talking about opening yourself up to a life that embraces Mr. What's the point of spending money to join, spending time to write a profile, spending time answering a questionairre, only to eliminate yourself from 95% of those searching for you.
Relationship
In essence, courtship is a word that has been applied to describe the biblical basis for the relationship leading up to marriage. So needless to say, I did not listen to my husband, but thought because I had such an open relationship with my daughter and we had been talking about sex since she was 13 years old that she would never have sex...I was very, very wrong.
Love
Women love to laugh. And they are not as keen on actual jokes as men often are - they prefer spontaneous wit and they love to be gently teased. Women love charm, so long as it is natural, cool and unpretentious.
Meet
Your friends start trying to fix you up and you begin to consider going out to meet new people... of the opposite sex. Online dating and personals sites are great ways to meet a variety of people all over the world, but with such convenience it's easy to lose control.
Single
Women often grumble about the inventory of single men saying, "There are no good men available. I spoke with eight single men in their 40's who are members of a local dating service. What percentage of single people find bars and dance clubs a useful way to meet other single people.
Internet
If you ever plan on actually meeting people in person from Internet dating services, then be honest. Online Dating is drawing more and more people to the Internet in search of love, but the abundance of dating sites can be confusing for many.
Friends
Women tend to be more person-centred than men are - they love to have lots of friends - and you should have some women as friends for that reason: they will introduce you to their women friends. It involves the initial contact, the getting to know you, the first meeting, the second and subsequent dates, the first kiss, the first moment of true intimacy, sharing hopes and dreams, introducing friends and family, daily contact, blah, blah, blah.
Services
To-date websites offering dating services whether for the same cultural individuals or not, can be found scattered on the web. The concept of dating services is nothing new; it has a history of its own. Their services remain limited to the circulation of the paper.
Singles
You will find regular Speed Dating events in most major cities up and down these countries, and most singles usually go back for more. With so many singles still afraid to try online dating chances are they could end up staying single.
Dates
Gay males and females can find a plenty of options for dates on these sites. Not only will individuals be able to save some money this way; but they would also be able to impress their dates by including some of their favorite foods in the picnic basket.
Profile
This means you pay to view profiles and to have your profile matched with potential dates. I placed my profile on several sites and surveyed the marketplace. Never include your last name, home address, phone number, place of employment, email address or any other identifying information in your profile or initial messages.
Success
With each ticking second your anticipation grew as you weighed the odds of success versus the usually greater odds of rejection and the added embarrassment of looking like a jerk. Let me tell you how you can get big success on your first date itself.
Questions
Sometimes when I read some questions posted by people on dating on forums, I find curious phenomena. Ask simple questions that will help uncover a person's passions. Thinking about the answers to these questions and concerns, I came up with a well-received presentation, which I'll highlight here:
Conversation
The sum of the conversation is that "Christian Dating" is a territory that needs more attention simply because of the secularist ideas of dating that seem to market self- serving motives.
Successful
" Many of these sites boast of thousands of successful matches made in heaven and just as many marriages. If you are considering online dating, there are a few tips that can help make the experience a more enjoyable and successful one.
Speed
New research shows that singletons are flocking to speed dating events across the globe in their quest to find Mr or Ms right. Thinking about trying this new speed dating craze. The course and speed of the game is decided by her.
Message
But what most people don't realise is that only around 10% of dating site members actually meet a long-term partner on their chosen site and a whopping 70% don't even receive one message from another member. It's quick to join them, it's easy to message someone and because you know they are 'looking', you are speaking to someone that you already know is available.

Dating & Relationship Advice To Start You Off

Online
You will always here scaremonger stories of how it isn't safe, and too many online dating services have fake profiles. Singles all over the world are looking for other avenues to find love, and with our online dating tips, you will be one step closer to meeting your future partner and possible soul mate.
People
Many people fall in love in the beginning because they found the shape of nose to be very cute or the laughter very attractive. This is usually what people see first. In my work as a Marriage and Family Therapist most of my practice has been working with couples, because after experiencing divorce growing up as a child, and again after a ten year first marriage, I decided that my mission is to help people have successful marriages and families, and I thought the best way to do that would be as a marriage counselor.
Date
I am very attracted to a man at work and would like to go out on a date with him. 'Right,' my date replied. One bad date does not define who you are.
On the first date be a little cautious about the questions you answer.
Person
It is in man's nature to find his or her partner in life; unless of course the person has made a commitment to the "Single for Life Club". The purpose of flirtation is to interest another person in you, so showing them what's great about you is the way to go.
Yourself
Believing you need to make yourself more appealing to attract a partner. - Calm yourself by telling yourself you're excited, not nervous. In short, I'm talking about opening yourself up to a life that embraces Mr.
What's the point of spending money to join, spending time to write a profile, spending time answering a questionairre, only to eliminate yourself from 95% of those searching for you.
Relationship
In essence, courtship is a word that has been applied to describe the biblical basis for the relationship leading up to marriage. So needless to say, I did not listen to my husband, but thought because I had such an open relationship with my daughter and we had been talking about sex since she was 13 years old that she would never have sex...I was very, very wrong.
Meet
The advice that I will be offering you is simple and common sense tips that many singles should already know, or after reading this article, should understand what it takes to meet someone special online. Instead, meet in a public place during daylight hours.
Love
So why not pretend to be one of those experts, and tell them things they love to hear. Women love to hear this, from as many people as possible. Come to think of it, all of us as humans love to live in our own comfort zones.
Single
First Corinthians 7 instructs that single brothers and sisters be permitted to marry. I have one friend who was so jaded with regard to relationships and dating, that she had been single for about 3 years. What do single mothers do about dating when they have children at home?
Internet
Hooking up via the Internet is a common trend these days. An internet dating site with millions of members may sound great, but if only three members live anywhere within 1,000 miles of you, it might not be a good fit.
Services
Well, in the next few minutes you will read a comparison between online and offline US dating services and the writers' opinion on the best dating services. Yet, there are certain services I would prefer paying for. In the huge pool of internet dating services, there are very decent dating sites with tens of thousands of members rather than millions of profiles, giving much better services than bigger dating sites, who are only concerned with their marketing campaign and their sales.
Friends
These are the friends I know for many years, and to me they seem like the type of people that any men or women would desire and be happy to meet, and date; the typical situation is going on numerous, endless blind and non-blind dates, and getting disappointed and many times crushed.
Singles
Before you attend the next singles event or share emails with someone on Match. Busy legitimate singles with limited time can readily meet other singles with similar interests for friendship, dating, or commitment purposes while online. Date up to twenty enthusiastic singles in one evening of whirlwind dating.
Dates
The perky hostess sympathized, saying that she knew of one successful man who had a rule for the women he dates: Half his age plus seven years. To be able to pick and choose and go through dates like they were calendar pages to be tossed away with each passing day.
Profile
If you have decided to find yourself an ideal partner through online dating sites then making a great profile is one of the first steps to achieve that. How to make your online Profile seductive and what to look for in other people profile to know if they are your type or not.
Success
They don't think about getting success on the first date. Let me tell you how you can get big success on your first date itself. Yet don't sabotage your success of possibly getting a yes by having an inner tendency to expect rejection.
Conversation
Confidence, self-perception, and the ability to hold a conversation and make a woman feel comfortable are all-important elements to succeeding with and attracting women. This didn't require deep and complicated conversation but rather open honest words spoken in love and sincerity revealing the person.
Questions
Ask them questions about what they think about just before talking to a woman. You might like to ask questions like:. That means learning to listen - and to show you are listening by asking appropriate questions and using the right body language.
Speed
New research shows that singletons are flocking to speed dating events across the globe in their quest to find Mr or Ms right. Thinking about trying this new speed dating craze. The course and speed of the game is decided by her.
Successful
" Many of these sites boast of thousands of successful matches made in heaven and just as many marriages. Exuding the alpha male confidence is the first step in successful interactions with women, it's very simple and isn't a silly dating game.

Tips On Body Language for Successful Flirting

Male and female courtship signals have been studied, and the basic conclusions are that these signals are completely unconscious. The more you consciously understand the signals, the better and more successful you will be when courting the object of your desire, whether it is the man or woman of your dreams.
To master the art of successful flirting, you have to feel good about yourself first. Be confident. Be yourself, or else you will look deceitful or desperate. Flirting can be utilized in just about anything, not just in attracting the opposite sex, but also in attaining just about anything you want in your life. This can be described as good flirting. Good flirting should be done with a precise understanding of what you really want, coupled with positive sensations.
Here are their tips on how you can put good flirting to your advantage:
1. Don't worry about whether you are making a good impression or not. Instead, analyze how you can make the other person feel good. By doing this, you will get the feedback you are expecting. Soon you will make the connection.
2. Flirting can help you make friends or impress a client if you make yourself approachable. Put a smile on your face, as it gives you an aura of being friendly.
3. Remember that you cannot attract people just by sitting or standing like a statue. There will be instances when you will encounter a person who gets a little bit too close for comfort feel, or someone who makes you feel you are already invading privacy. No matter what you do, you would get a so-called "vacuum" reaction. Tough one, huh? You can avoid this by using gentle moves and by calibrating the person's reactions to you. Be aware of these signals: mouths get larger, the lips swell, eyes widen, pupils dilate, skin flushes and changes color, muscles around the mouth move, among others.
4. Be persistent. Flirting works best when you are patient. By being such, you will have room for improvement if at first you aren't getting the results you want. If you fail the first time, do it again the second time, third time, just keep trying. Try different approaches until you realize what will really work best for you. If you were rejected, don't give up. This goes with the sayings, "To err is human" and "Nobody's perfect."
5. This is probably for me the most interesting and somehow funniest tip I got: "Practice in the mirror, only then can you make it perfect!" This is especially true in meeting friends and prospects, because flirting may involve unwanted actions and attention which can put you in the bad light. You may be spontaneous in your actions, but you can't guard yourself if you are already overdoing it, and I supposed you don't want to be in that situation. Try practicing with your close friends and ask for feedback.
6. Make the first move! Opportunities knock only once, so if you want something or even someone, go for it, now! Let go of your inhibitions. But remember to apply positive or good flirting. Who knows if the person you meet at that moment is your gateway towards the fulfillment of your dreams.
Let Your Body Language Do The Flirting
Do you know why some people seem to have an easier time attracting the opposite sex? Here's what you can to do in order to catch the eye of your Honey Bunch.
1. Smile sincerely and frequently. In his article "The Six Don Juan Commandments of Body Language," Allen Thompson wrote that smiling is "The simplest, most obvious, and most powerful of the body language commandments." He also mentions that "Smiling conveys, both instantly and clearly, many wonderful things about yourself. Smiling demonstrates confidence, friendliness, a positive attitude, a good mood, and it gives the impression that you're someone who is, most likely, fun to be with. It's also very difficult to ignore."
2. Have a sense of humor. Learn to laugh at petty matters. People love to be with those who can turn any situation into a funny setting.
3. Maintain eye contact. Your eyes are probably the most expressive parts of your body. When you look at your dear one constantly, you are expressing your sincere intentions. Eye contact also establishes a bond between two persons. They would naturally feel more comfortable in each other's company.
4. Nod your head. By nodding, you signify your approval and you encourage the other party to continue talking. You give reassurance that your loved one is doing ok.
5. Be open, physically. Do not cross your arms across the chest or hold obstructive objects (such as a food) between the two of you. Put your hands on your sides (and if possible put your palms up) to convey openness.

Fathers should be honored

Now adays fathers are not honored. The good fathers take a bad rap from the bad fathers. The truth is there is alot of hard working, caring and loving fathers out there. We should celebrate father's day like we celebrate mother's day.
Make father's days a special day. Take him out to a baseball game, to a movie. Get him a unique gift. Something that shows he is special. Not just a father's day card with just a signature.
Let's not forget about our fathers. They also have to be reminded that they are doing a great job. Fathers are not perfect they also make mistakes. So if he needs to be forgiven, forgive him. What a great father's day present that would be.

3 Questions To Ask Yourself If You're Ready To Live Your Dream

One thing potential entrepreneurs continuously ask me is what should I be doing to get started? Should I be researching business ideas? Should I be writing a business plan? Where can I go to get inspiration on a business?
Where I would start is by asking yourself three questions. Now, If I were to ask you these three questions in person, I would ONLY share them with you if you promised to take action. Because if there was any ONE thing that I see lacking with most people who think they want to become wealthy and those who know that they are going to be and that is ACTION.
Here are the three questions you MUST ask yourself in order to make independence your own reality.
1. Are you serious about REALLY living your dream?
2. Are you on the right track to get where you want to be?
3. What can you do today get yourself closer to your dream?
That's it? You mean that's all you're going to give me Benny? C'mon - there has got to be some super-secret recipe that you can tell me that will start me on my way, some ONE thing that will lead me on my path to millions?
One thing that I've also learned is that my path is completely different than anybody else's. I tried to do things exactly as others before had done, and it just doesn't work. Now, there are some similar things that have been done before and will surely work. But what you want and what somebody else wants are two completely different things. That is why you won't hear me telling you how to do things.
I learned some time ago that this thing called your "Why" is what gets you going NOT the "How". There are a ton of books by these so-called gurus that will tell you how to trade stocks, or show you how they made millions by doing an infomercial. I love learning how they did it, but it might not necessarily be for me.
Alright, I hear you out there. Please show me something! Do you really want to make a million dollars or more? Do you want to know a business that will, if you are serious, take time to educate yourself and make smart business moves, you can become successful? Okay, it's Real Estate. It is time-tested and proven and I have several friends who are worth millions because of real estate.
Tell me , what's your HONEST reaction? Was it something like "No kidding, I'm doing that already." , "Oh, I could never fix toilets at 2:00 AM", "Should I flip houses, buy and rent?" or was is "Real Estate - nah too hard." The truth is real estate has created thousands of millonaires especially over the last 30 years, and personally, I've dipped my toe in it, but it doesn't excite me. So for many people who are interested in real estate as their passion - this works! For me, I'll probably buy some more real estate, because I know how to, but it won't be my primary focus. How about you?
Now go back to the three questions above, it is so easy to glance over the questions, but here's how you do it. Read question number one. "Are you serious about REALLY living your dream?" What is your life like today? Comfortable? Easy? Predictable? For many, the corporate culture creates an environment of "Just below acceptable". You do a job that isn't too hard. You make enough to enjoy life. You have a house, a car or two, take a vacation or two a year and that works. After all, everybody else is in the same boat right? So if you ask the question, are you serious? Many people will just say - NO. Because their lives are fine right now. Because of that fact, you can't move forward - you're not ready to go on. So while question number one may seem simplistic, it is the hardest question for MOST people to HONESTLY answer yes to.
Three simple questions. Three honest answers. That's all it takes to get you started.

Learning How to Let Go

As a self styled phenomenologist I like to break things down to their smallest part. In my day job I also have a natural desire and policy to do less and earn more.
I semi retired seven years ago at the age of 52. I owned a very successful business and was working seven days a week and a short day was 10 hours. I had enough, and lost interest in the business. I closed it down and took a year and a half off.
During this time I set out on my journey of spiritual awareness, and I starting reading books and writing articles. I took on a day job to supplement my savings and income.
My career as a salesman allowed me lots of freedoms to do my writing and manage my web site that was growing bigger and more popular every day. The current writing and web site management take up a lot of my time. For the last five and a half years I have considered my writing and web site as my work and my day job as my paying hobby.
In our sales meetings and in one-on-one meetings with the owner, he has said that any salesman who is not on the job to make money first shouldn't be in a sales job. He and I have had head to head combat with this philosophy. Although he may be correct in his opinion, he is plainly expressing a limited philosophy in my view. He simply does not understand my philosophy about my job and why I am there.
My present philosophy is really very simple, and is just the different path I like it. My response to his constant question about why I am there is multifold.
I need the divergence so I don't die in front of my computer, and getting off my butt is a good thing. I need inspiration and an alternate environment-I am on the road four hours a day and in four to six homes five days a week. I am by nature very reclusive and shy, and I go out of my way to avoid people. However in my work, I am just the opposite. People don't believe me when I tell them how introverted I am. The job provides me the chance to interact with people on their level and in the comfort of their homes. It is the connection I need with others.
Because I specialize in the study of manifesting, my job has given me great opportunity to consider how it works virtually. Over the years I have modified my selling approach many times to try and achieve and maintain my position on the job. I have been a trainer and a supervisor. I have been at the bottom and the top, and I have never been one to remain content with the status quo or to remain in the same position.
The job is a buffet of opportunities for me to write about my experiences and the different individuals I work with. I have run the gammed of emotions on the job. I have been given other opportunities to help and I seldom turn them down when asked.
It is the perfect job for me-not for the money-but for all the other opportunities it brings to me. I have discovered a gold mine, and have gained great insight into how to manifest what I desire.
Finally after nearly six years on the job, I have adapted a philosophy and have made a great discovery about my favourite subject.
The owner and I have made a straightforward agreement about the percentage that he will pay me. I have no issues with that. He has guaranteed me four qualified leads a day and sometimes as many as six. We also agreed I could have more if I wanted them. Between the leads that are generated by the telemarketers, I also receive referrals and office leads (customers who have phoned in).
My job definition is quite very simple-just sell. My new approach as to how I maintain my job and give the boss what he wants is even simpler. I do as little as possible.
I believe if I do my job effectively, I will have all that I desire from it and the bonus reward will be a paycheck that will reflect my initiative. My focus now, as it was in the outset, is not about the money. The money will come when the job is done. I learned over the years to stop counting the money or worrying about how much I have sold and how close I am to getting bonuses and duly achieving my targets. I try not to think about cancellations, break-downs and human error. My new thoughts are-just do the job-the money will come.
I have been able to demonstrate this philosophy and it is working. I am doing less and the money is getting better. I am not trying to control the current situation any longer-in fact I try to forget about the situation and give it little thought. I still have to catch myself periodically from counting or watching over my numbers. Things are happening in my job of which I have no jurisdiction over that is making my job easier.
We are now in the off season for our products and services. The telemarketers are having difficulty supplying the salespeople with leads and we are sitting on the side of the road for hours-waiting. I am now making more money and doing less. I am making money by just sitting on the side of the road waiting for leads.
Because there are now fewer leads, the office manager is phoning previous customers and booking my calls from an old database. The closing rate on these leads is about 85% as apposed to a closing rate of about 50% on the cold calls. He is working harder and I am sitting on the side of the road for most of my shift and earning more money. I have no conscious control over these events. However, at a subconscious level I am participating in the manifesting of them.
I was asked this week not to come into the sales meetings in the morning. I have always been apposed to them as I don't see them as informative or motivating. When I first started we had a meeting every day. I made so much noise over the years; I got them down to twice a week. Now I don't have to go in at all. Yesterday I was given the choice to come in or not-it has now become my choice-I think once a week is perfect.
I love this job, it is now working for me, and I am not working for it. I started off working 6 hours a day, six days a week. I am now working four hours a day and five days a week. All the opportunities are there for me-they just keep coming.
There is only one thing I have to do, and that is sell. The job, the money and all the others things I cherish about the job will take care of themselves. They will not, only when I try to control them. As far as the money goes, I have a clear desire about what I require to receive at the close of the pay period. Between the beginning of the pay period and the end of it, I will do little to try and control how I get it.
My philosophy is working-the boss gets what he wants in the end, and so do I. It's the perfect marriage. This article, hundreds more, and my books are all an outcome of this philosophy. It has been the greatest gift from my job. It is worth much more than the money I am earning.
My success is manifested by a desire and my own unique perspective. This philosophy may not work for others. There are some who would completely disagree with what I have written, and yet I am living proof that it has worked.
We are all great manifesters, few of us realize it, and once we try to understand the process our thoughts often get in the way of how it should work. We trip over our own feet. Keep it simple-do your job and take advantage of the opportunities which you are drawing to yourself.
If I was really wise, I would stop writing about these things. Just the very act of writing about it, changes it. Being true to my nature I must look deeper and by doing so, I am going to stick my foot in my mouth. However, this is going to create another opportunity for another article.
By doing less in my job and earning more, I have created the opportunity to do more with my writing and that is what I enjoy the most. I have also become more aware of opportunities and choices.
It is important to understand that by doing less, I don't mean being irresponsible. I simply mean if you take full responsibility for your job and know the results of your work, it will bring you what you desire-you will work less and earn more.
If you try to maintain control of the steps to your goal-you will eventually lose site of it. If you let go, the probable opportunities will come to you, and then it is simply about making good choices.
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Married Dating - Is it Worth It?

Infidelity is definitely a sin, but the fact doesn't stop some married people from dating other individuals. Maybe their marriage is on the rocks, or their marriage lacks excitement. Whatever the reasons are, there will always be spouses who will stray and date other people. The question is, are they dating single people or are they dating married individuals like themselves?

Believe it or not, but there are online services that cater to those married people who want to date outside their marriage. These married dating sites may sound immoral to some, but the service can be likened to escort services. They are discreet about it, and it will provide a safe haven for those who want to indulge in forbidden pleasures. Whether you like it or not, there are more and more "married but dating" individuals out there who'd like to break out of the monotony of their married lives and explore what's on the other side of the fence.

What exactly do these married dating sites offer? They allow married individuals to join a community of users who are also married and looking for dates and casual encounters. The sites offer them ultimate discretion and protection when using their services. How these sites work is pretty much the same as the standard online dating services; there are messaging services you can use to chat with other members, e-mail and match-making services.

Is married dating worth it? Depends on who you ask. Conservatives will automatically tell you that it's wrong and there are no excuses to cheat on your spouse; on the other hand, liberal-minded people will tell you that as long as it's done discreetly, it's all good. And discretion is where these married dating sites are all about.

There are lots of married dating sites where you can sign up and join.

1. WildMatch

The site promises sexy partners, single or dating. Quite simply, it's a place where people can look for sex and get it.

2. SexyAds
It features "lonely housewives" who need some loving, according to the website. The service promises hookups with no strings attached. It's an adult personal community where married people can go look for other married people and enjoy consensual pleasures.

3. MarriedSecrets

It's an online dating site which provides married people new ways to have fun. The site guarantees "a fun-filled affair with like-minded adults."

4. BangMatch

BangMatch is considered as one of the top adult dating sites around. Easy sex is their promise; it can't any simpler than that. The site further guarantees that they have a big number of women waiting to cheat on their husbands. Perfect for married dating encounters.

5. DiscreetAdventures
For married women and men looking for hush-hush encounters, the site provides a safe and anonymous way for married ones to experience illicit, extra-marital excitement. There are some nifty features, where a member can send kisses to other members, signifying that he is interested in them. It is also equipped with basics such as e-mail, instant messaging, and match-finder service.

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